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REMEMBERING MY DAD ON HIS BIRTHDAY. – Journeying Into Mystery

REMEMBERING MY DAD ON HIS BIRTHDAY.

My dad with Meg at the time of her birth.

Had Dad lived to see this day, he would have been 105 years old. He was a man of great faith, a man of great compassion, and a man of great integrity. The values that guided his life and by which he lived were God, family, and honor. He is the least self-centered of men that I have ever known. During the Depression, his family like many families suffered greatly. My grandmother would walk down the hill at night (Midwesterners think “mountain”) to the town of Turtle Creek, PA to scrub the floors of the taverns in the town. As a kid, Dad would often make that same walk down at night to help her scrub those floors so that she could get home before 2 a.m. His compassion and concern for others was a hallmark of his entire life. Color of skin, religion, language, and social status meant nothing to Dad. He treated all with the same amount of respect and kindness regardless of whether a person was an executive of a company or a homeless man on the corner.

I have two very distinctive memories from my infancy. The first, was coming home from the hospital. My folks lived in an apartment building on the South Side of Chicago. I remember being passed around to our neighbors who lived in the apartment below us. When I was handed to Mr. Burress, who smelled of cigarettes and beer, I was most displeased and created quite a fuss.

Dad walking me at night.

The second memory was that of my Dad walking me at night. As we would pace through the apartment, Dad would hum the same little tune over and over, lulling me to sleep. That tune is something I have never forgot. This past June, I took the little tune that Dad hummed and created a song out of it. The first two measures is the little melody Dad would hum. I just expanded it into this song. The song is in the form of a “Galop”. The Galop was a forerunner of the modern day polka. Along with his famous waltzes, Johann Strauss Jr, “The Waltz King”, composed as many Galops.

In honor of my Dad, one whose “sandals I am not worthy to fasten”, I present this little tune as a birthday present.

Galop for my Father, from “Music for the Celestial Dance” Psalm Offering 9 Opus 14 (c) 2020 by Robert Charles Wagner. All rights reserved.

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Deacon Bob

I am a composer, performer, poet, educator, spiritual director, and permanent deacon of the Catholic Church. I just recently retired after 42 years of full-time ministry in the Catholic Church. I continue to serve in the Church part-time. I have been blessed to be united in marriage to my bride, Ruth, since 1974. I am father to four wonderful adult children, and grandfather to five equally wonderful grandchildren. In my lifetime, I have received a B.A. in Music (UST), M.A. in Pastoral Studies (St. Paul Seminary School of Divinity, UST), Certified Spiritual Director. Ordained to the Permanent Diaconate for the Archdiocese of St. Paul and Minneapolis, in 1991. Composer, musician, author, poet, educator. The Gospels drive my political choices, hence, leading me toward a more liberal, other-centered politics rather than conservative politics. The great commandment of Jesus to love one another as he has loved us, as well as the criteria he gives in Matthew 25 by which we are to be judged at the end of time directs my actions and thoughts.

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